Only use devices designed and intended for use on the human body, especially AVOID training shock collars, home made, improvised such as 'stereo stim', and modified devices. Electricity Using electricity in BDSM play seems a scary notion to most people, but it can be made safer by adhering to several rules: A device (lockable ) panty-type which when worn prevents any type of genital stimulation. A means of domination over one's submissive. Scat (Enforced Chastity) In BDSM / S/m circles, meaning the banning or physically preventing one from achieving orgasm or any form of genital stimulation. Brown Showers (Enforced Chastity) In BDSM / S/m circles, meaning the banning or physically preventing one from achieving orgasm or any form of genital stimulation. Activityĭefinitioner Enforced Chastity In BDSM / S/m circles, meaning the banning or physically preventing one from achieving orgasm or any form of genital stimulation. Unless otherwise stated, the submissive/slave/bottom is the recipient/target of the activity. There is intentionally some overlap between categories. Note any additional information or nuances which might be important for your Dom/Master/Top to know in the comments section. Mark with an asterisk (*) those items which you are willing to do only with your current sex partner(s), but not with casual play partners Rating ScaleĠ – Utterly no desire to do that activity and don’t like doing it (in fact, may loath it) and ordinarily would object to doing it, but you would permit the Dominant to do it if they really wanted it (sometimes called a soft limit)ġ – Don’t want to do or like to do this activity, but wouldn’t object it if was asked of youĢ – Willing to do this activity, but it has no special appeal for youģ – Usually like doing this activity, at least on an irregular/occasional basisĤ – You like doing this activity and would like to experience it on a regular basisĥ – Is a wild turn-on for you and you would like it as often as possible If you do not understand what an activity is, mark that item with a “?”. However, if you write “NO” next to almost every item, you should probably find another interest to pursue. There is nothing wrong with indicating “no” on an item. If you write “NO”, it means you will not do that item under any circumstance (a hard limit). Willingnessįor each item, indicate the degree to which you are willing to try that particular activity by rating it on a scale of NO or 0-5 (see rating scale below). Write N/A if it does not apply to your gender. Have you had real time experience with the activity? Switches should go through the checklist twice one persons Dom and Sub interests may be very different.įor each item, you need to provide two answers: Experience Dominants may wish to work through the checklist, to get a better handle on their specific interests. This will provide a starting place to identify limits, negotiate consensual play and find common ground for play.
This checklist is be filled out by a submissive/slave/bottom and provided to their Dom/Master/Top before playing with them.
Simply print it out and then fill it out for your Dom/Master/Top. You may adapt and/or share the work for non-commercial purposes as long as a credit to the author and a link back to this original is included.Ĭheck on Rain City TNG upcoming events or join their Fetlife group on their website.This form allows you (the submissive/slave/bottom to list what experience you have had, rate your willingness of each bdsm activity and note any nuances or comments you wish to make. They have kindly made this negotiation sheet available under the Creative Commons Attribution-NonCommercial 4.0 International (CC BY-NC 4.0) License. They organize social, play, and educational based events and provide a safe space for young people to explore and understand the complexities of human sexuality. The Rain City TNG group is a non-profit social and educational organization based in Seattle, WA for those 18-35. Ask questions! When you say you want spanking, does that have to be limited to your butt, or can I smack your chest too? Discuss the terms, and maybe write in your own extras! When you’re done, you’ll have a physical list of what the plan for the scene is that will have far less confusion than if you tried to do it all off the top of your head. Using the “Tonight, I want…!” Negotiation Sheet is simple: Give one copy to each person in the scene and ask them to fill it out.
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